WHY YOU SHOULD NOT FALL IN LOVE
Do not be too hard on yourself 💓. Falling in love is a big issue. When you are in love, you need to compromise and loosen up your uptight nature to allow someone else in. It makes you do what you’ve never thought of doing. It’s like you are unleashing your hidden potentials *lol*.
Anyways, this is a view about what love is.
Now, people have started to ask the right questions (humor intended).
Have you ever experienced what couples talk on phone hours and hours? You will know that they always talk about movies , latest songs , their dreams, their fantasies and a lot of other stuffs which have absolutely no resemblance to real life problems and thus wastes their crucial time as well.
It’s not that love is responsible for this, but its loving the wrong people that is responsible for this. One should realize the difference between love and infatuation. It should not be based on only looks, but also on conduct and character.
Let's suppose there is a couple who loves each other badly and after few years of relationship they are going to be married in a week , and what happens suddenly few days before the marriage is that the girl met an accident and she turns into a burnt victim or something , and now if the other person refrain himself from marrying that girl , what does this mean ?This only means that he was never in love with her, he was just hormonal because he only loves her because of her look and that’s why he is refraining now from marrying the same girl.
If you know about love, probably two to three decades before there was a bit of romance, and it’s not the love which is in today’s age. The teenagers of this era do get infatuated a lot with one after another. Falling in love is not a big thing but there comes the mountainous task to maintain and to hold that relationship for a long time.
Everything needs to pass a test of time. Moreover, everything has their proper time, and everything looks good at their particular time only, and thus prime focus should be on the career. Once you face the hardships and struggles of life, you may gain experience enough to tackle any problem and then you are also qualified to do such things so called ‘LOVE’ as well.
Do Not Mistake Love For Infatuation
In order words, LOVE IS A TASK ON ITS OWN... SO TAKE UP THE TASKS OF LIFE FIRST, BEFORE FALLING IN LOVE... HMMM.
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